There is a fine line between desiring what we want
and then being detached from it manifesting.
Being detached from something doesn't mean you don't care
or that you don't want it.
It just means that you don't NEED to have it in order
to be happy. When you come from a place of NEEDING something
you are coming from a place of lack. You are telling the
universe that you are missing out on something and you
can't be happy until that is fulfilled.
The vibration you are sending out is lack and that
is precisely what you will receive back from the universe.
Ask yourself this question, "Do I need this to happen,
or do I prefer that this happens?"
When you come from a place of preferring something
you are then detached. You would absolutely love it to
happen, but you won't get upset if it doesn't because
your happiness and fulfillment doesn't depend on it